More than just a food quote

S. Truett Cathy, the founder of Chick-fil-A, passed away today. In light of this, I thought it’d be appropriate to take a look at one of his guiding principles. You can find this quote from Cathy in every Chick-fil-A restaurant:

“Food is essential to life, therefore make it good.”

This is one of my favorite quotes, but not just because it’s about food. This quote is more than simply a cooking philosophy; it’s a life philosophy. The idea behind this quote is that we should focus on what we can give people, not what we can get from people. Many businesses have the practice of identifying a need and then making as much profit from it as possible. Something like, “food is essential to life, therefore make as much money as possible from it.”

Now, I’m not saying making money is bad. But imagine just how different our world would be if monetary gain wasn’t the primary goal. What if the goal was to bless others? What if the goal was to make the world a more enjoyable place to live in?

This philosophy has made quite an impact in the fast food industry. Chick-fil-A stores are noticeably different from all other fast food restaurants. And people love it. Normally, when I go to a fast food restaurant, it’s because I need food not because I enjoy going to fast food restaurants. Chick-fil-A is the only exception.

I’ve made this quote from S. Truett Cathy one of my life principles. My goal is to view life through the lens of giving, not getting. I want to love life, not just live life. Cathy wanted food to be more than just fuel for the body, but something to be enjoyed. I want to live that principle out in every aspect of my life. For example, I don’t want to be employed merely so I can make money (although that’s a good goal also). I want to be employed because I love what I do and I know I’m making the world better for others through what I do.

Basically, this philosophy can be summed up like this:

People before things. Others before yourself.

That’s it. People before things. Others before yourself. That kind of philosophy can change the world. S. Truett Cathy did in fast food. How can we do it where God has placed us?

Image courtesy of thecreativepaige.com

Image courtesy of thecreativepaige.com

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Speak with Conviction

When we desire to speak with purpose, to communicate with purpose, we must have conviction. This video is definitely worth three minutes of your time.

Do we speak like we believe what we’re saying? Or are we afraid to speak with conviction when speaking on what we believe? As communicators for Christ, we are communicating messages that are grounded in God’s word. We must speak with conviction, with passion, with authority. It doesn’t matter how others view us as long as we speak with grace in addition to conviction. Because our message is grounded in the greatest Authority, the strongest Foundation.

Disclaimer: While this video is completely appropriate for all audiences, I understand that other content from Taylor Mali is not. I don’t at all endorse anything from him, except for this video, which is excellent.

You Get What You Expect

Take a quick look around your world, and it’s pretty obvious how much of a mess we’re in. Especially when it comes to young people. Young people think they’re entitled to everything, are disrespectful, and it’s pretty sobering to think of what the world will be like once the next generation takes over. If we were to plot this reality on a graph of 0-20 (with zero being as bad as possible and twenty being incredible), it might look something like this:Low reality

But there’s more to this graph. Reality can also be referred to as “results.” Why? Because you get what you expect. In other words, reality is the result of whatever you expect. So there’s actually two parts to this graph: results and expectations. And they are very closely related. Today, we have very low expectations of young people. You might think the reason is because the results are low. But it’s actually the other way around. We have low results because we have low expectations.2

When expectations change, the results will follow to match the expectations. So if you raise your expectations, then your results will rise.3

So what happens when you lower your expectations? The results decrease.5

This is the problem with today’s young people. Our culture expects “not much” from young people, so “not much” is the result. Young people play close attention to the cues given them by adults. And they respond. Society tells us that teenagers go through a rebellious stage. So parents expect their kids to go through a rebellious stage. And so they do. Not because it’s “natural” but because it’s expected. I never went through a rebellious teenager stage. Not because I’m unique, but because my parents didn’t expect me to. In fact, they expected the exact opposite. Results follow expectations.

So if we want better results from young people, what do we have to do? We must raise our expectations. Once our expectations rise, then results will rise to match them. And this trend will continue.7

Not only are we not getting good results by having low expectations, but what are we communicating? If I have low expectations of you, what am I telling you? That I don’t believe in you. That I don’t think you’re capable of something better. That I don’t think you’re mature enough. This is what’s being communicated to young people today. But here’s the deal. Young people won’t become mature unless they’re expected to and are treated like the people they’re expected to be.

Of course, this does’t acquit young people of responsibility for their actions. Not by a long shot! Young people can fight against low expectations. Yet, they might not even realize that there’s something to fight against. The environment young people live in has a great effect on them. I was able to fight against low expectations because of the environment my parents created at home. If that environment doesn’t exist, then young people might not realize that they should be fighting to start with.

If adults expect young people to waste their life, they’ll treat them like that, and young people will waste their life. That’s what we’re seeing today. Let’s reverse that! Adults, I ask you to expect more of us as young people. And we will rise to that expectation. Treat us like the people you want us to be. We will rise to the challenge. Because you always get what you expect.

What’s Your Standard?

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For everything in life, we have a standard. Whether it be a tape measure to determine the length of a board or a rubric to determine the quality of an essay, we use standards all of the time in every area of life. Some standards aren’t as obvious as a tape measure or a rubric. When we eat food, for example, we determine its quality by taste. We probably wouldn’t be able to explain how exactly we determine whether or not a certain food tastes good or not, though. Nevertheless, we still measure the quality of food against some sort of a standard.

What standard do you have for your life? How do you determine what’s a good choice to make and what’s not a good choice? How do you determine the path you’ll take in life? What do you use to measure how successful you are?

Whether we realize it or not, we’re using a standard to measure our lives against. Therefore, it’s really important that we choose our standard, that we have a standard we can point to. As Christians, the standard we should have ought to be pretty clear. God’s Word is the only standard we should abide by and measure our lives by.

Sadly, many Christians say that the Bible is their standard, but don’t actually practice it. I know it’s hard to recognize Scripture as my standard sometimes, when the Bible’s instructions are in conflict with my own opinion or desire. But it’s just a fact that honoring God isn’t easy. However, although it might not be easy, honoring God’s truth as your standard brings joy, peace, confidence, and satisfaction! What do you say your standard is? What really is your standard? The answers to these questions may not be the same. They should be though.

I pray that you will trust God and make His Word the standard for your life. Always. Regardless of how hard it gets. Regardless of what might have to change in your life. It’s absolutely worth it! Because when the Bible is your standard, you are on God’s side! “What then shall we say to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us?” (Romans 8:31, NKJV)

What’s your standard?