A Tangled Journey – Let’s Review

While the Disney movie Tangled is not a perfect movie by a long shot (there are definitely themes I disagree with in the movie), it has provided some neat insights into life. Today’s post concludes my five-part series examining Tangled and our own lives’ stories. In this post, I want to review some of the highlights from my past posts and leave you with some key takeaways.

  1. While “When Will My Life Begin?” is a really fun song, we should view life a little differently. God has placed each of us where we are for a reason. If we are living according to His will, His plan for our lives, then we’re right where He wants us to be right now. The future is always a day away! We shouldn’t life our lives waiting for our life to begin. It’s already started! Live your life in the center of God’s will now. Live it doing what He’s called you to now.
  2. Our dreams should be bigger than just us. Flynn and Rapunzel give us great examples of this. Both of them had dreams that were all about themselves. But they realized that life was bigger than just them. And ultimately each of them were willing to sacrifice themselves for someone else. Our dreams should be the same way. God gives us dreams, and we should fulfill them will all of our heart.
  3. Everyone has a story! The reason stories like Tangled connect and resonate with us so much is because each of us has a story! But our stories are a part of a bigger, grander story – God’s story! Your story matters!
  4. We get a storybook ending! Life can be frustrating at times. But we know the end of the story! At the end, we will spend eternity with our Father That’s a “happily ever after” ending if there ever was one. Live today with confidence in tomorrow!

But here’s the really cool part – each of our stories are still in progress! Live life in the center of God’s will, and you’ll never go wrong. You’ll be writing His perfect story for your life. We can keep the end in sight, knowing what we’re living for.

Just imagine all that we get to accomplish between now and the end of the story! Think of the chapters to fill; the adventures to be had! Go, tell your story!

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Do I Get a Storybook Ending?

happily ever afterThe past couple of weeks, we’ve learning some neat lessons from Disney’s Tangled and discovering how principles from Tangled apply to our own lives’ stories. But what about the ending? I mean, Tangled has a pretty good ending (spoiler alert!). Eugene rescues Rapunzel, Rapunzel saves Eugene, they get married, and they live happily ever after. How much better can it get, right? But what about each of our stories? Do we get a storybook ending?

When I first started thinking about writing this post, my answer to that question was “no.” I had this idea to write about how our stories probably won’t end like a storybook but how we just need to trust in God no matter how the story ends. It was going to be a great post, except for one thing. My premiss was all wrong! We do get a “happily ever after” ending!

Think back for a minute to my last post. In that post, we talked about how each of our stories are just a part of God’s bigger, greater story. And we know that His story has a good ending. So if our stories are a part of that, then our stories also have a good ending. And think about when our story does end. I guess you could say our story ends when our life here on earth ends. So what’s the ending? The ending is going home! And living happily ever after! Literally! How cool is that?

I know it’s easy for me to get so caught up in what’s going on in my story right now that I forget the ending. I forget what I’m living for. I’m not living for ease and comfort. I’m not living for myself. I’m living for Christ and to further His kingdom! My story has a good ending! Regardless of the struggles we have here on earth, regardless of the attacks by Satan, we know how the story ends. The battle is already won! Christ is the victor! We spend eternity with our Father!

So don’t be jealous of those storybook endings like that of Tangled. Just keep your life in the right perspective. Remember what you have to look forward to. Live today with confidence in tomorrow!

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Everyone Has a Story

After writing my two posts examining themes from Tangled (“When Will My Life Begin” and “What’s Your Dream?“), I started thinking about why Tangled is so neat and why it can be so powerful. And I realized something pretty obvious – it’s the story. We relate to the story, we connect with it. Why? Because each of us has a story. I have a story. You have a story. Everyone has a story.

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Isn’t that neat? God has placed each of us where we are with a purpose in mind. He’s given us a mission, a story. Our lives are stories in progress. Who’s the author? I think we have a tendency to want to write our own story, I know I do. But who started the story? God did. He’s the author of our story! He’s the one who knows each chapter, who knows the storyline, and who knows how it will end.

Viewing my life as a story excites me and helps me understand life a little better. There are ups and downs, good parts and bad parts, in every story. But every piece matters and contributes to making the story what it is. When I’m in the middle of a story, I don’t always understand why a certain scene matters, why this one thing had to happen, but it all comes together in the end. And that’s how life is! When we’re in the middle of something, we can’t always understand why it’s happening, or how it will turn out for good, but, just like a story, everything in our lives is a part of our story that God is writing. Of course, this doesn’t excuse any mistakes we make. When we make bad choices, that affects our story, potentially in a negative way.

The coolest part of this, though, is that our stories aren’t really our own. Our stories are just pieces of an even bigger, grander story – God’s story! Throughout the history (His-story!), God has been telling the story of who He is and His love. All of our stories contribute to His story.

Now it makes more sense why we connect and relate to stories like Tangled. We see our own stories and our own circumstances reflected in the characters, the situations, and the storyline. We love stories because we have stories.

But so what? Why does all of this matter? Because your story is a part of God’s story, your story matters. So tell your story! Live your story! Allow God to use you as He chooses. Let Him write your story. And hear others’ stories. Listen to them! You’ll be amazed at the incredible story God is telling through all of us!

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Who’s In Control?

“‘Therefore I say to you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink; nor about your body, what you will put on. Is not life more than food and the body more than clothing? Look at the birds of the air, for they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns; yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they? Which of you by worrying can add one cubit to his stature? … Therefore do not worry, saying, “What shall we eat?” or “What shall we drink?” or “What shall we wear?” … But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.[‘]” – Matthew 6:25-27, 31, 33 (NKJV)

I love this passage of Scripture! Here, Jesus states quite clearly that we are not to worry. But although we all know we’re not supposed to worry, actually not worrying is a whole other story. I want to share with you a few thoughts on worry from the perspective of God’s sovereignty, in the hopes that it will encourage you to truly not worry and trust in God.

Why do we worry? I recently realized something very interesting. Normally, when we worry, we’re worrying about something that we don’t have any control over. If we can control it, then we don’t typically worry about it. For example, I may be stuck it traffic, worrying that I won’t get home in time for something. I can’t control anything about the situation. But if I had left late, not giving me enough time, I wouldn’t be worrying. I’d probably be irritated at myself, but not worried. If we have an alternative course of action, we normally do that instead of worry. So when we have no control, we start worrying.

But what does worry communicate? If we want to be purposeful in our communication, we ought to identify what we’re communicating when we’re worrying.

To be blunt, worry communicates a lack of faith in God. You see, since we worry about things that we can’t control, in essence we’re saying that we think we should have control in that situation. But clearly we don’t. That means it’s in God’s domain. So if we’re worrying, then we’re saying that we don’t trust God enough for Him to take care of the situation and we think we should have control instead of God.

But here’s the good news. God is in control, regardless of whether or not we see it or understand what He’s doing! Remember, God sees the big picture; we don’t. We’re humans; God is perfect. God is sovereign! He holds the world in the palm of His hand. This is where faith enters. Hebrews 11:1 tells us that “faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.” We can’t see the big picture, but that doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. It just means we have to have faith. We must trust in God and His sovereignty.

So when you’re tempted to start worrying, remember this: you’re worrying because you’re not in control, which just means God is in control. That’s actually a really good situation to be in!